That said, recognizing the difference between who a person is and what a person does can be difficult, and takes practice and patience.
We can love people first by recognizing that we are loved, no matter what we do. Then, we can love others without loving everything they do. We can have the boldness to let them know they are doing wrong, and the self-respect to not let them act out around us.
That's how I am able to love people, not their actions.